Self-Pleasuring One-on-One: Letting a Partner Watch

Self-Pleasuring One-on-One: Letting a Partner Watch
Self-Pleasuring One-on-One: Letting a
Partner Watch
Although a child’s very first experiences with self-pleasuring tend to be
public, occurring as a baby when they simply discover some pleasure from
manipulating their privates, it isn’t long before they are taught that selfpleasuring is not something to be openly shared. While socially this is true, it
does of course create a situation in which people are afraid to self-stimulate
in front of anyone else, even a partner who loves them very much. Selfpleasuring, of course, is involved in a comprehensive male organ health
regimen to varying degrees, and there’s a lot that a partner can learn from
witnessing how their mate self-gratifies.
Letting a partner watch him self-stimulate, or especially inviting a partner to
watch him, can be awkward for many (though not all) men. It also is likely
to be more difficult for a man who is involved sensually with a woman,
rather than one whose partner is another man (although some gay men
experience similar hesitancies about self-pleasuring as their straight
counterparts; every individual is different, after all.) But it can also be
beneficial in several ways:
 It can bring a couple closer. Ironically, since self-pleasuring is
usually thought of as something which a man does all by himself, in
many cases the act of manipulating one’s member for pleasure in front
of a partner can actually strengthen the bond of intimacy in a
relationship. By sharing his self-pleasuring, a man is opening up a
very private part of himself. He is exposing some form of
vulnerability. By doing so, he is acknowledging that he implicitly
trusts the person watching him with a part of himself that he is not
willing to open up to most people.
 It can teach a partner a great deal. Although a woman who has
been a man’s partner for a long time undoubtedly knows many
sensual secrets and tricks about him, there are still likely to be many
things she does not know. (The same applies to men with male
partners as well.) Often, the things she can learn from watching a man
self-gratify may have more to do with detail or nuance than “big
picture” lessons. For example, perhaps she notices that when he selffondles, he squeezes the head of the manhood more rapidly just as he
is approaching release, or that he strokes the underside of his shaft
with two fingers just after it becomes firm. These tips can be
incorporated into their own sensual activities.
 It can teach a man a great deal. Sometimes a man can also learn
about himself from self-pleasuring in front of a partner. He can
pinpoint specific emotions that it arouses and how he reacts to them.
He may discover that, despite his best efforts to be “natural,” he feels
self-conscious self-stimulating in front of someone – and that’s okay.
Or he may feel he has to “perform” somewhat, rather than simply sit
back and be himself – and that’s okay, too. Or he may have the
opposite experience and find that he became even more at ease, more
natural because he let himself self-fondle willingly for a partner.
Whatever reactions he has, they can be valuable and enable him to
learn more about himself.
Most men will find self-pleasuring in front of a partner easier if he knows
his manhood is in good shape, a result of regularly using a first rate male
organ health oil (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which
is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). Like the rest of the body, the
member needs vitamins to enrich and empower it, so the best oil should
include important vitamins like A, B5, C, D and E. In addition, that oil
should provide access to alpha lipoic acid, a powerful antioxidant which
battles oxidative stress and the damage that can inflict on sensitive male
organ skin.
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